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my boyfriend and I live with my parents. I pay them rent and pay for the wifi. I also am buying (with my boyfriend) our own food so my parents don’t have the burden of feeding us. The other day my parents got upset with me for cooking my own food saying I should cook for everyone in the house and when my boyfriend and ... | Adventurous_Cat2691 | 2023-10-26T22:36:52 | null | AITA For buying and making my own food when I live with my parents? | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/17h8qys/aita_for_buying_and_making_my_own_food_when_i/ | 17h8qys | 1,308 | 6 |
Hey Reddit! My original post got taken down for being too long so I am going to make this one shorter but still relatively detailed. For the record this is American football. Not a full field. Around 5 players for each team. Highschool football in gym so not extremely competitive. Two hand touch.
My team was pretty g... | EdgucatedCheerful | 2023-10-26T22:41:17 | null | AITA for following the rules in highschool gym football? | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/17h8ui0/aita_for_following_the_rules_in_highschool_gym/ | 17h8ui0 | 2,862 | 0 |
To provide context, our daughter is 19 months now and we went on vacation 3 months ago with wife’s sister, husband and two boys age 10,11. One of them kept saying bulsh*t around her I didn’t like it around her but found it funny when he would say it. They are from Europe and English isn’t their first language. We live... | Character-Bus8261 | 2023-10-26T22:46:10 | null | AITA- telling daughter to swear in wife’s language in-front of her family instead of English swear words for comparison | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/17h8y9x/aita_telling_daughter_to_swear_in_wifes_language/ | 17h8y9x | 2,156 | 1 |
My husband sprung a very sudden trip on us to visit his family in his native country. He moved to USA two years ago so we could marry and start our lives together.
Now I didn't feel this trip was a good idea because we have been trying to move out of my family home, and things have been tough. He was very upset when ... | MemoryOk8893 | 2023-10-26T22:46:29 | null | WIBTA if I ruined the surprise? | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/17h8yhi/wibta_if_i_ruined_the_surprise/ | 17h8yhi | 1,317 | 3 |
I'm a little on the fence about this although I do think I'm ultimately justified in my decision. I (18f) recently picked up a seasonal side job at a haunted house. I had worked at haunts as a teenager and figured it was a great way to make some extra money.
However one thing that was fishy off that bat with this haunt... | PercentageWide6608 | 2023-10-26T22:53:16 | null | AITA for quitting my job without notice? | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/17h93q8/aita_for_quitting_my_job_without_notice/ | 17h93q8 | 3,406 | 7 |
So, last night, I went out with my coworkers, and my boyfriend tagged along. We kicked things off at a brewery and later headed to a pool hall before dinner. At the pool hall, my boyfriend was already a couple of drinks in and started chatting with my coworkers about music. When one of them mentioned she liked EDM, he ... | Particular-Bug2400 | 2023-10-26T23:00:12 | null | AITA for being embarrassed by my boyfriends strong opinons on music? | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/17h98s2/aita_for_being_embarrassed_by_my_boyfriends/ | 17h98s2 | 1,881 | 18 |
Okay, I'd like to start off with giving some context. I'm autistic, Personally I struggle to deeply connect with things that aren't my special interest. I'll be shortening special interest to SP for efficiency sake.
Right, so. My mother often tells me she wishes i'd talk to her more, but often gets mad at me for talk... | Murruyu | 2023-10-26T23:00:59 | null | AITA for talking about my special interests when my mother asks me to talk to her? | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/17h99ii/aita_for_talking_about_my_special_interests_when/ | 17h99ii | 1,426 | 3 |
Me (21 F) was struggling with finding a place to live since I had just gotten out of a abussive relationship and currently living with a “friend” that all he wanted was sex and I never gave that to him so he ended up kicking me out, and another “friend” told me it was okay if I moved in with her (21 F) and her boyfrien... | Moon-light_02 | 2023-10-26T23:05:48 | null | WIBTA if I ask my ex roommate for my money back | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/17h9dbm/wibta_if_i_ask_my_ex_roommate_for_my_money_back/ | 17h9dbm | 2,075 | 1 |
The scene unfolded at our usual Starbucks, where my husband and I often sip coffee while working. On this particular day, our hunger struck just shy of lunchtime. We had plans to dine elsewhere, so he casually remarked, **"**Is it worth shelling out for that minuscule sandwich, knowing we're about to have a proper lunc... | Comfortable_Job6715 | 2023-10-26T23:10:34 | null | AITA - He ate my egg sandwich | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/17h9gxc/aita_he_ate_my_egg_sandwich/ | 17h9gxc | 1,107 | 9 |
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He came home around 3am. We spoke this morning. I did not yell or anything like that. I jokingly prodded at him. I said hey next time just let me know so I don't wonder if you're dead or something. I'm not sure if he 100% understands why it wasn't great for me but we shall see. I'm also going to spend more time... | Sad-Tip-272 | 2023-10-26T23:12:14 | null | AITA for wanting to leave the trip because I'm upset | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/17h9i7u/aita_for_wanting_to_leave_the_trip_because_im/ | 17h9i7u | 3,365 | 81 |
She asked me for money to support her and her daughter. I told her no because it is mine and my husbands money.
We are recently married and I’ve just found out I’m pregnant. My husband dislikes my sister and she dislikes him. My sister and I are usually close but she dislikes my husband. He earns the most money and hi... | Neither_Profile_6865 | 2023-10-26T23:21:25 | null | AITA for not giving my sister money while she is struggling to get by and I’m well off? | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/17h9p3n/aita_for_not_giving_my_sister_money_while_she_is/ | 17h9p3n | 1,021 | 40 |
I M(56) called my son(20) a lazy piece of shit.
It all started when he turned 19, I said to him that he needed to get a home or look for a job, to start in life you know, but he won't, he's already 20 and the only shit he does for us is take the trash out and sometimes he refuses to.
One day I demanded him to go take... | BackgroundOkyu | 2023-10-26T23:24:49 | null | AITA for calling my son a lazy piece of shit | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/17h9rpx/aita_for_calling_my_son_a_lazy_piece_of_shit/ | 17h9rpx | 1,531 | 2 |
My (37F) brother (33M) and his partner (33?F) have two daughters (5 & 2). We often get together for family bbqs every couple of months.
Every time my SO (37M) and I leave these family events, my brother and his partner will make their kids give us a hug and kiss (on the cheek) goodbye. Sometimes the kids don't want to... | ThrowRA-ra-ra-ra- | 2023-10-26T23:33:33 | null | AITAH for telling my brother and SIL it's not 'rude' for their kids to say no to unwanted physical contact? | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/17h9yfd/aitah_for_telling_my_brother_and_sil_its_not_rude/ | 17h9yfd | 2,717 | 90 |
I (18f) and refusing to clean my closet in my parent’s house for a few reasons.
Reason one is that they have snooped around my room not too long ago and I thought it was done, but it turns out they did it again today, and they don’t care how invasive it is. For instance, they have gone through every drawer and bag in... | Dune_Sand_2005 | 2023-10-26T23:46:52 | null | AITA For Refusing to Clean my Closet in my Parent’s House? | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/17ha88e/aita_for_refusing_to_clean_my_closet_in_my/ | 17ha88e | 1,628 | 1 |
I’ll try to summarize, but the end of this summer my girlfriend got her dream job out of the country, and asked if I wanted to move with her. (Weren’t living together at the time) I had no job connections but struggled and managed to get a job. We’ve both had commitment issues in the past (myself more so) but this was... | Puzzleheaded_Ad_6998 | 2023-10-26T23:57:29 | null | AITA Girlfriend Upset about international moving change of plans | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/17hafog/aita_girlfriend_upset_about_international_moving/ | 17hafog | 1,123 | 1 |
I (16f) have an older step brother (22m) who lived with us for about 2 months. during this i stated in a previous post that i had some concerns with his behavior. after that i found out that he had bought weed and alcohol for an old friend of mine (16f) and was out with her, from screenshots my friend sent me it seemed... | Ins7an7Karma | 2023-10-27T00:01:48 | null | AITA for “ruining” my brothers life and tearing apart my family in the process? | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/17haita/aita_for_ruining_my_brothers_life_and_tearing/ | 17haita | 1,398 | 10 |
I (F, late 20s) graduated college nearly a decade ago (I was admitted young). I am the oldest, and my younger siblings are all going on to attend the same college I went to.
Whenever one of them is admitted, my parents want me to help them figure out schedules, programs, online vs in-person, housing, etc. Basically to... | Mediocre-Tax8719 | 2023-10-27T00:06:52 | null | AITA For Not Helping My Siblings with Their College Admissions Anymore | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/17hamjd/aita_for_not_helping_my_siblings_with_their/ | 17hamjd | 2,082 | 42 |
My older sister is getting married on February 14th, 2024, and has been planning this wedding since December 2021. Since she has had so long to plan, her expectations have risen exponentially over the course of the engagement. Initially, she wanted just a simple backyard wedding, but now she is planning for a live band... | Miserable-Heart-9765 | 2023-10-27T00:11:42 | null | AITA for telling my (25f) sister (28f) that she's doing too much for her wedding? | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/17hapx5/aita_for_telling_my_25f_sister_28f_that_shes/ | 17hapx5 | 2,215 | 5 |
This happened about a year ago, but I'm still being forced to sleep in the basement with my sister, when needed, to this day. I was a freshman at university and my dorm hall was closing. On the day of my arrival, everything seemed fine until the clock struck ten. My divorced mother told me I needed to go to the basemen... | CompetitiveOwl9645 | 2023-10-27T00:15:51 | null | AITA for not wanting to sleep in the basement with my sister? | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/17hasqb/aita_for_not_wanting_to_sleep_in_the_basement/ | 17hasqb | 691 | 4 |
So, I(40M) have a younger brother(37M) and he has two girls(17F and 12F) who he abandoned for a new girlfriend and step daughter 7 years ago.
I live with my mother(70F) in the house me and my brother grew up in and the girls come to stay every three weekends. They basically get spoiled by me, my mum and my late fathe... | Known_Age_9129 | 2023-10-27T00:30:20 | null | AITA for not letting MY kids round their bio father? | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/17hb2tq/aita_for_not_letting_my_kids_round_their_bio/ | 17hb2tq | 1,046 | 13 |
Edit to add - I’m not arguing the legality of what my father did, or whether or not I (and my sister) had enough time to look through the jewelry. I think my father giving it to his replacement/gf is inappropriate, weird, and just offensive (especially to my SIL and aunts/mom’s sisters, who had NO opportunity to look a... | FragrantSeason2208 | 2023-10-27T00:37:31 | null | WIBTA for telling my father’s gf I want my mother’s jewelry back | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/17hb849/wibta_for_telling_my_fathers_gf_i_want_my_mothers/ | 17hb849 | 3,965 | 15 |
I was recently asked by a former colleague who is now a professor to speak to her college sales class (junior and senior sales majors who have done at least one internship), and I accepted. I have over 25 years of sales experience and am currently chief sales officer of a large company, employing a sales team of over 1... | ThrowRAujshdjos | 2023-10-27T00:37:39 | null | AITA for talking about sales approaches based on ethnic and cultural stereotypes? | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/17hb881/aita_for_talking_about_sales_approaches_based_on/ | 17hb881 | 2,652 | 2 |
This happened a few days ago in a large EU airport. I was sitting at the gate before boarding and the person seated next to me (who I had never met before) turned to me and asked "Could you watch my suitcase while I go to the bathroom, it will only take a few seconds." I told him "I don't think we are allowed to do tha... | haskell_jedi | 2023-10-27T00:40:21 | null | AITA for refusing to watch someone's luggage in an airport | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/17hba4v/aita_for_refusing_to_watch_someones_luggage_in_an/ | 17hba4v | 737 | 288 |
We were planning to go on a 7 day vacation to a warm country, with just our backpacks. My bf had packed his bag already when I started my packing the day before the flight. I noticed that he didn't pack his sunglasses so I placed both of ours in my sunglasses case (to save space,) put it in my backpack, and told him I ... | cooery | 2023-10-27T00:41:32 | null | AITA for blaming my(27f) bf(26) for me "forgetting" to carry my sunglasses on a vacation? | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/17hbaz1/aita_for_blaming_my27f_bf26_for_me_forgetting_to/ | 17hbaz1 | 1,595 | 6 |
Here’s the back story. Going to change names for anonymity. I apologize in advance as I’m writing this on mobile.
My husband and I reached out to a breeder (let’s call her Stacey) in our state for a puppy. Stacey let us know she wouldn’t have any new puppies for a while but told us that she has a friend (Claire) in a... | peachmelody | 2023-10-27T00:52:34 | null | AITA for not agreeing to bring an additional puppy back on my flight for the person who referred me to my breeder? | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/17hbimt/aita_for_not_agreeing_to_bring_an_additional/ | 17hbimt | 2,597 | 677 |
My boyfriend and I work at the same college, just different departments. He is higher up but not my supervisor or anything.
I was in my office that I share with one other person who does not like my boyfriend. We were not busy. My boyfriend knocked on the door (it's locked) and we knew it was him but decided not to an... | atomic_wombat3 | 2023-10-27T00:58:39 | null | AITA for not answering the door when my boyfriend was knocking? | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/17hbmri/aita_for_not_answering_the_door_when_my_boyfriend/ | 17hbmri | 1,308 | 3 |
I’m a twenty year old female, I have an older brother (21) and my mom ended up giving birth to my younger brother when I was ten (so he’s currently ten)… I call my little brother babe, not all the time and imo not in a weird way. He’ll be like ‘hey sissy’ and i’ll answer with a ‘yes babe?’ I’ve never thought of it in t... | frogfrogfrog13 | 2023-10-27T00:58:49 | null | AITA/in the wrong for the nickname i’ve given my little brother? | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/17hbmvx/aitain_the_wrong_for_the_nickname_ive_given_my/ | 17hbmvx | 798 | 17 |
My pregnant fiancée has brought to my attention that me answering a phone call while in public is rude and inconsiderate. Let me preface the rest by mentioning that this is not a common thing or has never been an issue before. We live in a rural area and the next metro area is 45 mins away in any direction. So it might... | Paintedbirmingham | 2023-10-27T01:03:58 | null | AITA Answering the phone while in public | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/17hbqiz/aita_answering_the_phone_while_in_public/ | 17hbqiz | 1,225 | 1 |
Almost a year ago I got my best friend a Nintendo Switch and a $60 game for Christmas because I new they really wanted one but couldn't afford it. We had been best friends and pretty close for over a year now and I had the extra money. Then about a week into the new year (this year) they started ghosting me out of no w... | theBEnjamin_32 | 2023-10-27T01:04:01 | null | AITA, I guess this is a would I be? | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/17hbqkd/aita_i_guess_this_is_a_would_i_be/ | 17hbqkd | 2,084 | 3 |
So a bit of background: last week my mom’s boyfriend yelled at her in front of his family during Sunday dinner. She was tired and didn’t want to immediately help him prep and he took this as her having a bad attitude. A tiff broke out and eventually he started dropping f bombs before yelling that he was “sick of her sh... | scientologistgf | 2023-10-27T01:06:01 | null | AITA for cussing out my mom’s boyfriend on their date night while she has shingles? | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/17hbryu/aita_for_cussing_out_my_moms_boyfriend_on_their/ | 17hbryu | 1,673 | 7 |
For context my aunts husband is a dick and my wife hates him. My cousin used to live with us and it’s his parents I’m talking about. While my cousin lived with us he let his dad borrow his car for months and he borrowed our car in the meantime. My uncle told my cousin that me and my wife were taking advantage of them a... | THE_TRUE_ELOHIM | 2023-10-27T01:09:22 | null | AITA for giving my aunt a ride to jury duty | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/17hbuah/aita_for_giving_my_aunt_a_ride_to_jury_duty/ | 17hbuah | 998 | 4 |
I (21f) am in a dilemma in the moment regarding an argument I had with my mom(40). For context my family and I went to dinner at a nearby restaurant, my treat, to have some quality family time. While we were waiting for our food my mom commented that she was tired and wanted to sleep when she got home. My dad commented... | nocontact24_throw | 2023-10-27T01:29:47 | null | AITA for she’s immature and she needs to grow up | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/17hc8dr/aita_for_shes_immature_and_she_needs_to_grow_up/ | 17hc8dr | 2,331 | 0 |
I 28f rent the upper floor of a house. The downstairs has another couple that we are pretty amicable with. The landlord stays mostly out of the picture opting to let a building management company deal with maintenance and other issues.
In May I went to use the hose and when I turned it off the water kept coming. I cal... | KTCreates | 2023-10-27T01:33:17 | null | AITA for getting upset with my building manager? | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/17hcazl/aita_for_getting_upset_with_my_building_manager/ | 17hcazl | 1,786 | 4 |
My husband has an employee with whom he works really closely, he is her boss and then she is the boss for many other of his employees in the office. They travel and spend a lot of time together. We’ve all spent time together and I am confident he’s not interested in her, and nothing is going on romantically between the... | RelationshipOdd8524 | 2023-10-27T01:34:35 | null | AITA telling my husband he shouldn’t do matching Ken/Barbie costumes with his female coworker? | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/17hcbzr/aita_telling_my_husband_he_shouldnt_do_matching/ | 17hcbzr | 1,500 | 1,682 |
I (33m) have noticed in the past month that my GF (29f) hasn’t been eating as much as she normally does. We have been together for 4 years now and while she has never had the best appetite it has never been at the level it is at now.
For context she rarely eats breakfast and the times that she does it means she doesn... | GFEatingAdvice | 2023-10-27T01:34:52 | null | AITA for telling my GF she has to eat? | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/17hcc76/aita_for_telling_my_gf_she_has_to_eat/ | 17hcc76 | 1,574 | 2 |
So I just started coaching chess. I've been shadowing different coaches for a little over a week.
I'm rated 1900-2050 in online rapid. This 70+ year old coach I met asked me how many classes I was doing and apparently it's way more than he's doing.
So he asked me how long I've been working with the company and I to... | Independent-Road8418 | 2023-10-27T01:35:27 | null | AITA - This interaction felt super awkward. Is the dude just weird or AITA? | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/17hccn4/aita_this_interaction_felt_super_awkward_is_the/ | 17hccn4 | 2,051 | 4 |
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My (21f) bf “Jake” (26m) and I have been together nearly a year. We decided early on to keep our own places until we decide to start seriously considering marriage. In the meantime we just visit each other through the week and have sleepovers on weekends.
Jake has 2 cats. Fluffy and adorable and I love th... | DisgruntledHatter | 2023-10-27T01:43:16 | null | AITA for not wanting to eat at my bfs house? | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/17hci7e/aita_for_not_wanting_to_eat_at_my_bfs_house/ | 17hci7e | 1,763 | 43 |
I've (26M) been at my current job for almost 1 1/2 years (I've been with the company for 3 1/2 years but I switched locations early last year) and there is one coworker (37F) that I am struggling to work with.
The long and short of it is that this one coworker I have- let's call her Mary- is constantly rude and deman... | thewritegrump | 2023-10-27T01:50:11 | null | AITA for jeopardizing my coworker's job? | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/17hcmvu/aita_for_jeopardizing_my_coworkers_job/ | 17hcmvu | 2,972 | 6 |
So, I (26f) moved out of a house that I shared with my roommates (20s M, M, and NB) a few months ago. We have all known each other for about a decade. Though it wasn't my idea to move out, we ended on amicable terms.
Today, I had a package accidentally sent to their place, and went to go pick it up. Unfortunately, one... | doordebate | 2023-10-27T01:51:56 | null | AITA for grabbing my package from my old house? | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/17hco45/aita_for_grabbing_my_package_from_my_old_house/ | 17hco45 | 896 | 6 |
Throwaway acc cos I dont want my friends to find this post. A little bit of a background story; me, 21f, is overweighted and never has a boyfriend.
I visited my family last weekend and my sister told me when I was away in uni, my brother (14) told her that I will never have a chance to get married, that im so fat that... | External-Scar972 | 2023-10-27T02:10:23 | null | AITA for refusing to help my brother after he said I could never get married | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/17hd0t7/aita_for_refusing_to_help_my_brother_after_he/ | 17hd0t7 | 2,303 | 184 |
I’m the assistant manager and she’s the manager. She’s worked for the company 2 years and I started 4 months ago.
I had a question about where 2 items were located. I just sent a quick text. 2 employees I was working with also didn’t know where it was. One was free w purchase and another was expensive so I really wan... | ijustmadethisokay | 2023-10-27T02:14:50 | null | AITA for contacting my boss when she is not at work | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/17hd3r3/aita_for_contacting_my_boss_when_she_is_not_at/ | 17hd3r3 | 821 | 6 |
My sister is 4 months away from being 18 and we are 6 years apart. I moved out when I was 13 and missed 10 years of her life. Recently I moved back to my home town and had my first kid and 3 days after he was born my sister moved in. She has been here nine months now and I'm considering asking her to leave. She doesn't... | Weak-Broccoli3437 | 2023-10-27T02:15:32 | null | WIBTA For asking my sister to move out? | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/17hd48v/wibta_for_asking_my_sister_to_move_out/ | 17hd48v | 917 | 3 |
I've been friends with Alex for years. We've always shared a close bond and trusted each other with our deepest secrets. Alex is in a long-term relationship with their partner, Jordan, who is a wonderful person. But there was a secret I discovered that could potentially shatter their relationship.
One evening, while ... | BEEEEEEPBOOOOOOOPE | 2023-10-27T02:19:07 | null | AITA for Revealing My Friend's Secret? | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/17hd6p8/aita_for_revealing_my_friends_secret/ | 17hd6p8 | 1,549 | 0 |
Alright so I, F18, still live with my parents and have a pretty decent relationship with them. Now that it's the spooky season, and one of my favorite times of the year I was invited to a costume party and planned on going with a group of my friends and get some dinner after we went to the party and this is where the p... | perpetual_rose | 2023-10-27T02:22:12 | null | AITA for deciding to wear a "sexy" cop costume to a costume party and dinner? | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/17hd8vg/aita_for_deciding_to_wear_a_sexy_cop_costume_to_a/ | 17hd8vg | 1,174 | 0 |
I (18F) recently had a conversation with a relative (70sM). It was mainly a normal conversation, but at some point it shifted and he ended up spilling some extremely traumatic events that happened to my Dad when he was a child. I was shocked and he even admitted to saying he probably shouldn’t have told me and that h... | False_Function_4537 | 2023-10-27T02:27:22 | null | WIBTA if I talked to my sister about a secret I learned from my Dad’s childhood? | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/17hdc8t/wibta_if_i_talked_to_my_sister_about_a_secret_i/ | 17hdc8t | 2,735 | 0 |
For context: My (28f) brother (37m) have been LC since he showed up on my doorstep with barely a 2 day notice, starting that he was staying at my place for the weekend with his kids and his wife. The last time we spoke prior to that incident, he was talking about divorce.
I've been struggling with a second tumor on my ... | Shadofortuna | 2023-10-27T02:28:20 | null | AITA for refusing to visit my brother for the holidays? | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/17hdcwq/aita_for_refusing_to_visit_my_brother_for_the/ | 17hdcwq | 2,700 | 14 |
My parents have offered to pay for me and my son to travel to Maui, but haven’t invited my wife.
For context: My wife and I met in the USA 10 years ago and we moved to Australia (she is Australian) just before COVID.
During that time we had a son who is now 2, and he hasn’t met my parents in person but they've met a ... | cheetosyummm | 2023-10-27T02:28:22 | null | AITA for taking our 2 year old son OS, without my wife? | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/17hdcxa/aita_for_taking_our_2_year_old_son_os_without_my/ | 17hdcxa | 2,824 | 0 |
Update : yes my friend does know about my situation I saw a few comments wondering if she knew . Ok so for context I am (22F) and my friend is (26F) Who just recently found out she was expecting, I am happy for her and have told her so ! However, a few months ago me and my boyfriend found out that I would not be able t... | zestytoast123 | 2023-10-27T02:30:15 | null | AITA For not wanting to hear about my friends pregnancy ? | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/17hde62/aita_for_not_wanting_to_hear_about_my_friends/ | 17hde62 | 2,861 | 7 |
I (20F) did laundry today I ran the washer and when I went to switch the laundry it was a little wetter than normal. I didnt think much of it and continued to put the clothes in the dryer. I emptied the lint, turned it on and walked away. A few hours later my husband (21M) came home from work and asked for a towel to s... | Nice_Body828 | 2023-10-27T02:32:23 | null | AITA for not drying the clothes before putting them in the dryer | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/17hdfqr/aita_for_not_drying_the_clothes_before_putting/ | 17hdfqr | 1,393 | 6 |
To start this off some basic things:
Right after lunch in my math period(This is HS)
Other kids openly eat food-Burgerville,Taco bell and other fast food joints
My teacher has called me and other students insane in the past
There isn't any rule against food at all!(See the sentence above)
This wasn't bag of pre popped ... | anobodyTwT | 2023-10-27T03:01:37 | null | AITA?I ate popcorn during class and was sent in the hallway for it | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/17hdzm3/aitai_ate_popcorn_during_class_and_was_sent_in/ | 17hdzm3 | 1,939 | 0 |
I’m 17 and my older brother is 18. We also have a 9 year old sister and a 5 year old sister.
Anyways, my brother “Max” is extremely protective of us. He’s the only boy and the oldest so everyone likes making all those “big brother” jokes and I suppose he really took them all to heart.
Either way, it’s annoying.
Ever... | jjay13A | 2023-10-27T03:10:55 | null | AITA for yelling at my brother who’s just trying to help? | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/17he5lq/aita_for_yelling_at_my_brother_whos_just_trying/ | 17he5lq | 2,564 | 7 |
I dated a guy a 2 years ago. Long story short we said we were only going to see each other but he slowly stopped texting me and calling ( we were LD ) I expressed my concern and he said it’s my fault I feel like that and that he can’t text me all the time because he has other priorities. The next day he was posting a ... | GetIntoTheHabit | 2023-10-27T03:14:33 | null | AITA for not responding to texts from ex’s apologizing to me ? | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/17he7yn/aita_for_not_responding_to_texts_from_exs/ | 17he7yn | 1,563 | 0 |
So for context: my husband lost his job and we had to move in with his family while we build up enough move to back into our place. G=Grandma. I(20/f) husband(22/M)
So my husband’s G has always had something to say about everything. When it came to how I dressed down to my parenting style. My son was a Nicu baby. He ... | Busy_Alarm9584 | 2023-10-27T03:17:23 | null | WIBTA for wanting to leave and take my son with me | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/17he9s1/wibta_for_wanting_to_leave_and_take_my_son_with_me/ | 17he9s1 | 2,185 | 12 |
My niece (13) was at my house and found some chocolate meal replacement shakes my husband brings with him to work. They don't have any weird supplements or anything just protein and vitamins. She asked to try one so I said sure and she liked it so she finished it. She also ate some popcorn and other stuff. I in no way ... | Ok_Anywhere6547 | 2023-10-27T03:17:24 | null | AITA for giving my niece a meal replacement shake | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/17he9sk/aita_for_giving_my_niece_a_meal_replacement_shake/ | 17he9sk | 1,298 | 163 |
I (18F) and my dad (50M) have had a rough relationship for about a year and a half now, almost two.
When I was young, I was a huge dad’s girl and I never really developed a close relationship with my mom, so you can already assume that he was literally the one person I’ve trusted my whole life.
A little short story t... | elxrtrbl | 2023-10-27T03:20:08 | null | AITA for not wanting to apologize to my dad again? | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/17hebkp/aita_for_not_wanting_to_apologize_to_my_dad_again/ | 17hebkp | 2,992 | 0 |
Obligatory apology for length and formatting, I'm on mobile.
So for backstory, my little sister (22f) and me (24f) grew up in a very unstable environment, not the greatest parental situation.
After basically being kicked out at 18 (I had to be out asap and ended up in temporary housing), I still saw her almost ever... | Dontaskwontanswer | 2023-10-27T03:29:21 | null | AITA for ghosting my little sister after our mother died? | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/17hehhe/aita_for_ghosting_my_little_sister_after_our/ | 17hehhe | 7,870 | 18 |
Before my brother went to jail, he asked me to look after his dog. I noticed that the dog seemed overweight and took her to the animal hospital where she is registered. Her vet said she has indeed gained a lot of weight since her last check up and then told me to feed her Royal Canin's weight management food. I did as ... | Napasse | 2023-10-27T03:29:50 | null | AITA for switching my brother's dog's diet to a more expensive one? | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/17hehrp/aita_for_switching_my_brothers_dogs_diet_to_a/ | 17hehrp | 878 | 11 |
I wanna start off by saying I love and have tattoos, so does my partner. But I love *good* tattoos.
My partners cousin is an apprentice who has done about 4 or 5 tattoos. He’s not terrible, but he’s also not very good at all. Wobbly lines that don’t connect, very scratchy colour… which is fine bc he’s learning. We ... | notherthrowaway223 | 2023-10-27T03:30:36 | null | AITA for not wanting my partner to get a tattoo? | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/17heiaq/aita_for_not_wanting_my_partner_to_get_a_tattoo/ | 17heiaq | 1,785 | 0 |
I am a mom to 1 kid (1 deceased) and a wife. I love my family, but they stress me out at times. At work, my boss, "Kevin," and the VP "Sandra" told me we are doing performance-based layoffs. We plan to lay off either "Danielle" or "Kyle" because they are bad at their jobs.
I've been at this company for 25+ years and I... | Pure_Reflection4602 | 2023-10-27T03:31:43 | null | AITA for exclaiming at my daughter "what are you doing" after she argued with her dad? | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/17hej2n/aita_for_exclaiming_at_my_daughter_what_are_you/ | 17hej2n | 2,121 | 1 |
I'm getting married this year, and asked a close high school friend to be in my wedding party. We've been friends for a long time, see each other almost every other week, and generally get a long super well and have never fought until now.
Since high school, she's always been a yo-yo dieter and will cycle through gai... | Fluffy-Koala4094 | 2023-10-27T03:41:57 | null | AITA for buying my bridesmaid a backup dress in case she couldn't fit into the one she chose? | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/17hepgv/aita_for_buying_my_bridesmaid_a_backup_dress_in/ | 17hepgv | 2,245 | 3,413 |
I 19F got an argument with my dad recently for telling him my step father is a better father than he is. For context my dad is a workaholic man and doesn't find time to spend with me for the past and when my mom found out that he is cheating on her with a woman he met online she divorced him immediately . She met my ... | Lucky-Huckleberry-44 | 2023-10-27T03:47:05 | null | AITA For telling my father that my step father is a better dad than he is? | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/17hesf8/aita_for_telling_my_father_that_my_step_father_is/ | 17hesf8 | 1,106 | 4 |
I have been very close friends with a girl for 14 years. Let’s call her Betty. We went to high school together. Lived together all 4 years of college. We have been through a lot together and up until now have had a very happy, supportive friendship. We text or see eachother at least once a week for the past 9 years. I... | porkchop3144 | 2023-10-27T03:47:07 | null | AITA for changing my maid of honor and potentially not having her in wedding | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/17hesfo/aita_for_changing_my_maid_of_honor_and/ | 17hesfo | 2,473 | 11 |
I’m a 25(M)
I split rent with my parents & I would give money for groceries when needed.
I indulge in smoking cannabis and I understand it has an auroma. They complained of the smell but I never smoked in the house. I smoke in my car, spray myself with cologne and go straight to the shower to bathe and change my cl... | JJETTASNOTJJETTAS | 2023-10-27T03:52:00 | null | AITA? Smelling like Weed | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/17hevc7/aita_smelling_like_weed/ | 17hevc7 | 573 | 0 |
theres a lot of context here😅.
back when I (f18) was in the 4-5th grade I had made a joke trying to convince my friends that i was an undercover spy and that my real name was Alex. i was about 10 at the time so ofc it was a stupid joke mad by a little kid. my friends had played along with it (knowing it was a joke) a... | ap_rival_ | 2023-10-27T03:52:28 | null | AITAH for not telling any of my friends my legal name? | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/17hevla/aitah_for_not_telling_any_of_my_friends_my_legal/ | 17hevla | 1,986 | 3 |
For 11 years, I have been begging my parents to watch my favorite show (The Walking Dead and, of course, all of the Spinoffs) with me. Not to watch it on their own, but to watch it WITH me. Like, spend time on the couch watching it with me. For 11 years, the answer has been no.
We just moved to a new state, so now tha... | Temp_9282 | 2023-10-27T03:58:51 | null | AITA for not wanting to watch a show with my mom every night? | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/17hezbp/aita_for_not_wanting_to_watch_a_show_with_my_mom/ | 17hezbp | 2,955 | 2 |
My Bf (23M) and I(19F) were on a call going over details for this weekend. After getting my costume today, he got upset that I had an outfit and he didn’t. I explained that I have been wanting this outfit regardless because I like to cosplay, and if I didn’t order it that day then I wouldn’t have anything at all (last ... | YikesThatsTuff_19 | 2023-10-27T03:58:58 | null | AITAH for telling my boyfriend to stop yelling at me? | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/17heze7/aitah_for_telling_my_boyfriend_to_stop_yelling_at/ | 17heze7 | 2,968 | 0 |
Hi. The title sounds cold, but I am sincerely not sure what the right thing to do is in this case. I (17f) live with my mom (53f) and sister. Sister isn't really relevant.
My mom pays for a woman "Adi" (50f) to come clean the house once a month. She has been coming for about 5 months now. I do not see her often but al... | ThrowRA_accountz | 2023-10-27T04:00:19 | null | AITA For not offering my condolences to the woman who cleans the house? | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/17hf07x/aita_for_not_offering_my_condolences_to_the_woman/ | 17hf07x | 2,467 | 47 |
all mid 20s
I started dating my boyfriend about a year ago and have gotten pretty close with his friends from college as well (mostly girls). We all go out drinking somewhat regularly, and as girls do, they like taking pictures of everyone while we're out
I've never been a social media person, I've never been a huge ... | mygotothrowawayxd | 2023-10-27T04:06:17 | null | WIBTA for asking my friends not to post pictures of me to their social media that I don't have access to | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/17hf441/wibta_for_asking_my_friends_not_to_post_pictures/ | 17hf441 | 1,597 | 0 |
I (18F) started my first year of college this August, but I live with my family. My father (48M) lost his job a year ago, and he has yet to get a new one. My mother (45F) was unable to work. During my senior year of high school, I started working full-time to pay the bills for my 12-person household.
When I was in hig... | Possible_Ask_4689 | 2023-10-27T04:15:15 | null | AITA for wasting money when my parents don't have jobs? | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/17hf9bd/aita_for_wasting_money_when_my_parents_dont_have/ | 17hf9bd | 2,268 | 3 |
This all happened about six months ago, but still bothers me. I (29 x) am currently in college for writing. I have two professors I work with in my program. One professor, who we'll call Jane is cool and really supportive of my work being unconventional, the other, let's say Sam, from the beginning has pushed me to fit... | redacted4192 | 2023-10-27T04:17:09 | null | AITA for asking my professor for advice on talking to her colleague? | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/17hfacl/aita_for_asking_my_professor_for_advice_on/ | 17hfacl | 2,968 | 2 |
AITA for posting the truth?
I, 25F, posted a story spilling the truth about a former friend, Katy 27F. Katy, and I both staffed a college convention together for 7 years. In 2022, I volunteered to make the convention into an offical student organization. Though Katy was no longer a student, we eventually made an excep... | inmyvengeanceera | 2023-10-27T04:18:57 | null | AITA for posting the truth? | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/17hfbds/aita_for_posting_the_truth/ | 17hfbds | 3,000 | 2 |
Hi everyone,
So, she got invited to a party next week and she asked me if I wanted to go. Throughout the next days she’s been keeping me updated on where the party is and who’s going.
Context:
I’m not a big party person, I used to be when I was 14-16 but now i kinda don’t like drinking and, with me being very intro... | Sfloress | 2023-10-27T04:36:15 | null | AITA, Gf doesn’t want me to go to a party with her. | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/17hflh9/aita_gf_doesnt_want_me_to_go_to_a_party_with_her/ | 17hflh9 | 5,451 | 2 |
I apologize for my choice of word. English is not my first language.
Our culture is very family oriented.
My mother (75), who has been living with me (55), and my family are in a very difficult situation.My mother is a retired farmer who had to stop working in 2005 due to a health problem that made her di... | trownaway494 | 2023-10-27T04:37:41 | null | AITAH if I abandon my disabled mother? | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/17hfmb0/aitah_if_i_abandon_my_disabled_mother/ | 17hfmb0 | 2,858 | 4 |
To make a long story very short, I (38M) met my husband (39M) of just under a month when we were forced to join a high school club out of punishment. He was recently moved from his home country to where we both currently live again under more than traumatic circumstances, so for a lack of better people to rely on, he a... | WoeISme3592 | 2023-10-27T04:40:52 | null | AITA for not telling my (now) husband all of the dirty details of my past? | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/17hfo2k/aita_for_not_telling_my_now_husband_all_of_the/ | 17hfo2k | 2,660 | 3 |
After my grandpa died 6 years ago, my parents started using the weekends to go to his house to get it ready to sell. They ended up staying with their friend Brian because his house was 20 mins away from my grandpa’s (no power there) and Brian is a life long friend of my dad’s. I was 17 when this started and after a whi... | 2busydancin116 | 2023-10-27T04:41:09 | null | AITA for fighting with my escapist mother? | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/17hfo8a/aita_for_fighting_with_my_escapist_mother/ | 17hfo8a | 2,897 | 4 |
So this happened a long long time ago, but it's always bothered me. Figured I'd make a throwaway and see what y'all have to say about it.
I (20-something F) and another 20-something F moved separately into a rented house already occupied by a 30-something F. 30F was just a regular tenant like us, with no special autho... | Moist_Syrup_9823 | 2023-10-27T04:41:12 | null | AITA Objecting to housemate using kitchen sink to wash their shoes | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/17hfo9h/aita_objecting_to_housemate_using_kitchen_sink_to/ | 17hfo9h | 2,460 | 2 |
My husband and I have been married for 6 years. Together 10.
Before we met, he had an affair (he was the 'other man') with his mother's best friend.
He was super young (maybe 22 yo) and she was in her 40s going through a rough patch in her own marriage. Only lasted a few months- he claims mostly about the drugs and se... | Agitated790 | 2023-10-27T04:44:09 | null | AITA- MIL Invites Over Husbands Ex | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/17hfpyv/aita_mil_invites_over_husbands_ex/ | 17hfpyv | 990 | 4 |
I (24f) am marrying SO (28m) this upcoming weekend and have experienced nothing but stress and drama from the In laws. For context Holly and Cindy are SILs and Donna is MIL.
Last year I got engaged with SO and was excited about having a wedding and gathering all of the family together from around the US. I am not t... | MentalSand1123 | 2023-10-27T04:44:54 | null | AITA for kicking SILs out of my bridal party? | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/17hfqeo/aita_for_kicking_sils_out_of_my_bridal_party/ | 17hfqeo | 2,983 | 1 |
Some context my half sister is a year younger than me and had her second kid but I dont really have a relationship with her or my mom since her side of the family is just not people I enjoy being around. So my best friend and her husband have a kid together and since ive been in a really lucky place financially so I lo... | Past_Captain647 | 2023-10-27T04:45:22 | null | AITA for spoiling my best friends kids while not wanting to be around my half sisters kids | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/17hfqo4/aita_for_spoiling_my_best_friends_kids_while_not/ | 17hfqo4 | 1,041 | 2 |
Throwaway for privacy reasons. I (28F) am 5 months pregnant with my first baby with my husband (31M). Both sides of the family are really happy with the news since it's the first grandbaby of the family. Things have been rough on me, with sickness, body aches and emotions being in high gear lately.
Yesterday, my SIL (... | Throwaway_baby_name | 2023-10-27T04:51:26 | null | AITA for wanting to name my baby instead of SIL? | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/17hfty6/aita_for_wanting_to_name_my_baby_instead_of_sil/ | 17hfty6 | 3,775 | 224 |
I recently got a new camera and me and my friend went to toronto to take some pics which he asked me so he can take pics. I did gave it to him but he had a drone that he didn't even offer me to use.
I am still young and couldnt find a job due to my parents working in unorganized times and I have to take care of my br... | QWZynx | 2023-10-27T04:57:00 | null | AITA to argue with my friend over pics | /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/17hfwya/aita_to_argue_with_my_friend_over_pics/ | 17hfwya | 1,250 | 4 |
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