Suppose that $a, b, c$, and $d$ are real numbers simultaneously satisfying
$a + b - c - d = 3$
$ab - 3bc + cd - 3da = 4$
$3ab - bc + 3cd - da = 5$
Find $11(a - c)^2 + 17(b -d)^2$.

Let's think step by step and output the final answer within \boxed{}.
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