One of the roots of
\[ax^3 + 3x^2 + bx - 65 = 0,\]is $-2 - 3i,$ where $a$ and $b$ are real numbers.  Find the real root of this cubic polynomial.The answer is in the form rac{m}{n}, where gcd(m, n) = 1. Please provide the value of m + n.

Let's think step by step and output the final answer within \boxed{}.
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