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You tell women not to be good cooks? Not to be homemakers? Not to dress feminine, not to go to the gym and take care of themselves, not to speak softly and politely, not to embody womanhood? Because I do all of those things and more. I would even go so far as to say that raising a child adds value to my femininity, although that concept is against the unfortunate social stigma of today.

Yet your users insisted upon going through my post history and making unfounded exaggerations about my past, my morals, and my personality. No one asked what drugs I used, how often and how much; no, see one mention of it and all of a sudden I'm this unstable addict who probably abuses meth and doesn't take care of my child. I have a few posts concerning casual sex and I'm suddenly this giant slut (I don't have casual sex like I mentioned). Your RPW, without pretense, went into my history, hand-picked the posts that painted me in the most negative light, and insisted that these were the reasons I've been single for years. Yes perhaps it was ill-advised, because I didn't think that people would count against me the things I can easily change, and ignore all of the attributes that make up my value as a partner, but to go into my history and project your hatred of a woman who has a negative stigma against her and likes to occasionally enjoy herself in a way that doesn't harm anyone--is quite low. Happily unsubscribed.