I want to say two things to my two beautiful and amazing partners who will read this. First of all this is for you both as I am so lucky to have you both in my life. Secondly I hope you understand my message here, I love you both slavefoxie and Kiera.



Relationships for myself and people like me are really important and it’s not for the silly “I couldn’t live without you” reasons. The reason is that relationships allow me to live in the present when we spend so much of our lives planning for the future.

We go to school, college, university for our future jobs, we then do well at our current jobs for future promotions, we want these promotions for nice stuff all in our future. Everything in our lives is for tomorrow besides relationships, these allow us to be in the present. Our relationships, with close friends or partners are precious because of their immediacy. When I’m with my girlfriends I’m right here, right now and I will always love you for this.

I don’t mean to be negative, which means I’m going to be, but most relationships don’t last. I mean Foxie you will probably move away with your Master and Kiera you will also probably move forward with your life and away from me at some point. I know this, but it’s not even important because we have each other now, that’s what’s important. It’s not tragic because it’s going to end, it’s beautiful because we allow it to exist right now.

I hope I make you two feel even half as blessed you make me feel. I honestly am luckier than I deserve to have you two in my life. Thank you so much. xoxo