I don't typically recap the Tell All since it's not a developmental episode and often speaks for itself. I figured I would just do a Best Dressed/Worst Dressed post. However, since my Women Tell All Flare recap, I've been overwhelmed by the responses via the comments and on Twitter. I couldn't not speak my mind on this topic.

In that recap, I called Kaitlyn classy. What ensued was very interesting; many readers seemed to think that because Kaitlyn tells dirty jokes, has a potty mouth, and stripped down during a game of truth or dare in a lake, she therefore does not qualify as "classy".

This is a topic near and dear to my heart. During and since Juan Pablo's Bachelor season, I have been fortunate enough to be referred to as classy. That's very kind and I am grateful for it, but here's the thing: I have both a potty mouth and a very dirty sense of humor; those who know me well certainly know that. I didn't censor myself or pretend to be someone else during filming, yet few examples of me swearing or making off-color remarks aired at all. Clearly, I got the "classy" edit, since it so conveniently fit my "worldly opera singer" profile. Except... well, that's not really me at all. Yes, I have traveled around, and yes, I am an opera singer. But that is what I do, not who I am.